Dear Diva:

I want to impress my boyfriend with my skills.  Can you please tell me how to perform anal sex without pain?

Sincerely,

Wannabe Anal Annie

Dear Wannabe Anal Annie:

This is all about mind/body connection so I recommend practice.

Many women would rather perform public speaking than anal sex. The fear of many women is that it will hurt. My dear, it’s all in the mind. It’s about relaxing the muscles and enjoying the pleasure. The Diva has trained many a young woman on the pleasures of anal.

First of all you must make sure you are clean!  Use an enema earlier in the day to clean out the path. Also, never allow anal-to-pussy penetration as bacteria can cause a nasty infection in the pussy. Cleanliness is paramount.

You must lube the area and stimulate the anus. Then slowly slip the object (penis, butt plug, dildo) into the tunnel and as you are being penetrated, relax the muscles. Keep your muscles relaxed as you feel the dildo go further and further into your love tunnel. The more you perform this, the more you will like it.

I recommend starting out with a small butt plug and wearing it during the day. No one will even know. As you become more comfortable, you can move up in size until you can take it big.  Anal sex is one of the greatest pleasures. Keep practicing and pretty soon you will be one of the few who can perform this activity with ease.

-Eva “The Diva” Cumm

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