Are you new to sex toys?  Don’t quite know if they are the thing for you and your partner(s)?  This series of short articles is designed to give you a few ideas on how to get the most out of vibrators and where certain types of vibrators might work best.

Supplementing Oral Sex:

One of my favorite uses of vibrators is to supplement oral sex.  Your tongue can only be in so many places at once and if your tongue is like mine it isn’t all that long so it isn’t going to reach all the places that my partners would like it to reach.  There may also be some places that you don’t want your tongue to go that a vibrator can do just fine.  I find that a smaller vibrator like a lipstick vibe is handy for some beginning action, perhaps to get your partner warmed up.  You may want to use a good toy safe lube (see our reviews of lubes) to help your partner get going.  I like to use the vibrator to apply a little stimulation to the clitoris while I am working the labia and the surrounding area.  For ladies, a similar method could be used by using the vibrator on the head of the penis and working the shaft with your tongue and lips.  I like to start out with the vibrator on low and work my way up in speed so it is a good idea to have a multi-speed vibrator.

A lipstick vibrator with lube could be used to tease the anus without making your partner feel too uncomfortable while you work the front-side.  After my partner is good and warmed up I like to switch to a larger vibrator like the Original Jack Rabbit™ or a G-Spot Stimulator.  The larger vibrator allows me to go deeper then my tongue or the smaller vibrator would allow. A G-Spot Stimulator also allows me to hook around to that area inside the vagina behind the clitoris to work the G-Spot.  So with the vibrator working the G-Spot and my tongue working the clitoris or nipples, I am able to achieve great results.  Be sure to watch the lubrication levels so that you don’t ruin the pleasure and make sure you don’t get to gung-ho with the vibration or rotation of your sex toy (listening to your partner is usually the best way to see what is working).

Vibrators and lubrication are also good to use instead of oral sex.  Perhaps this is a new partner or they have failed the scratch and sniff test.  You may not want to perform oral sex on them but rather then disappoint them; you could suggest a little toy play as the foreplay of choice.  Perhaps they are big into rimming and you don’t want to go there, a little lubrication and a lipstick vibe will offer them a similar sensation while preserving your tongue for better purposes.  This would work especially well for ladies that are trying to please a male partner that happens to have a hairy ass.  Just make sure you aren’t going to trip his homo-phobe switch.

Once you are done having fun, make sure you turn-off your toys or take out the batteries.  Don’t be a fool and clean your tool so that it is ready for the next partner or next round of pleasure.  Stay tuned for the next article where we’ll cover strap-on fun.